Costa Rica
Divorces can be expensive, which is why many divorcees appreciate budget-friendly Costa Rica. Restaurants and hotels are surprisingly reasonable so you can treat yourself to higher-end accommodations and entertainment guilt-free. Plus it offers much-needed time to commune in nature — rainforests, jungles, beaches and volcanoes — for some reflection.
St. Barths
If you’re feeling you deserve some pampering after the emotional and mental strain of divorce, St. Barths is your place. The Caribbean island isn’t cheap, but your dollars will be well spent on gourmet restaurants, shops filled with beautiful clothing, top-of-the-line spas offering local ingredients in their treatments and pristine beaches.
New York City
If you feel insecure about traveling alone, those worries will disappear in the lively crowds of New York City. It’s perfectly normal to dine alone here, shop alone and even catch a show alone. Plus, it has stores for virtually any type of shopper from the luxury names on Madison Avenue to the world-famous thrift stores of Brooklyn. And it’s buzzing with the energy of the city that inspired the empowering show for singles, “Sex and the City.”
Ireland
If you get the social itch after your divorce, Ireland is for you. The locals here are especially outgoing and welcoming, always happy to hear the stories of a stranger. And the pubs don’t have that dark, depressing vibe of many bars—they’re cheery, warm places where it’s okay to grab a drink alone because you won’t be left alone for long. Add to that the highly dramatic beaches, perfect for reading a novel (or a self-help book).
New Orleans
How does this sound for a night after a divorce: an evening in a blues club where you can peacefully sip on colorful drinks and take in the sympathetic music? Pretty perfect, right? For breakfast the next day, you can munch on beignets or dine in any of the dozens of amazing restaurants. Many New Orleans restaurants have been featured on TV shows so you can even make a little TV tour of it! There are lovely gardens throughout the city to stroll in, or just sit and think in, and live jazz concerts light up the night in the French Quarter.
Thailand
If you’re riddled with anxiety after your divorce, wash it away in Thailand. It’s very affordable so you can dine, shop, watch entertainment and get all the massages you want without going over your budget. Then there are the hundreds of islands ready for you to explore in peace, or the beachfront bars.
San Francisco
If you’re already looking to meet the next someone, head to San Francisco. In this beautiful windy city, 44 percent of the adult population is single, so you won’t see too many wedding rings to discourage you. It’s a very romantic city with cable car rides, hills perfect for bike rides and of course the majestic Golden Gate bridge.
Bahamas
Sitting on a private island in the Bahamas is a world of luxury otherwise known as Kamalame Cay. There are several perfectly white beaches where you can drink and think the day away. The resort even offers a package for divorcees called “Le Divorce.” The package includes a massage, a manicure, pedicure, facial and snorkeling session.
Rome
If you need to be reminded that life is fleeting so you may as well have fun, walk the enormous, impressive ruins of Rome. When you’re ready to socialize again, Italians are very friendly (the men are ready for some friendly flirtation around every corner) and you can’t go wrong with any restaurant you choose to sit down at. If you’re looking for love, throw two coins into Treve Fountain: it’s said to bring you romance.
Burgundy, France
Want to drown your sorrows in wine, and be immediately cheered up by stunning landscapes? Go to Burgundy, where you’ll find vineyard after vineyard and the owners, who are committed to filling you with an intoxicating love of the good things in life.
